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I was talking to my friend, Kim, as we sipped cocktails at a bar in Hollywood. She followed my gaze. I nodded. She raised an eyebrow and slurped on her vodka cranberry. Some background might be helpful here.
He also shaved his head and, apparently, that threw my friend for a loop. I knew why.
All black. And the one or two white guys in the mix had hair. Are you a veteran of L. We want to publish your story. Hmm … he drove a pickup truck. And I knew from talking to him on the phone that he was from the South. So far, so good. I liked that place. As we drove along, I surreptitiously glanced at him — he was wearing a nice suit, having come straight from his office to get me. But something else was on my mind. More L. Affairs columns. This guy was from Georgia.
For that reason, I started getting nervous about this guy.
What if I were part of some Dixieland fantasy of his? Whenever we went somewhere with a lot of black people in attendance, I got the side eye from some of them. I understood. My dating outside the race was seen as a betrayal. And some days, it was tough because I felt guilty for not completing the picture of the strong black couple.
Another time, my boyfriend got a call from his ex-girlfriend. Word had spread through the Caucasian grapevine. I was working on a sitcom at the time. When I told the writers on the show I was dating a white guy from the South who drove a pickup truck, I could tell they were skeptical. The kicker was when we went to the wedding of one of his friends in Cape Girardeau, Mo. But I was getting ahead of myself, right? Was I in this or not? Was I ready to be committed to a guy whose family owned shotguns and went to the Waffle House? My parents were both college professors.
His dad played Santa Claus in various malls below the Mason-Dixon line during the yuletide season.
I loved that he shared a house off Sunset with a gay, Pakistani performance artist. Fourteen years and two kids later, race is still a thing, in a growing list of things, that defines us. Affairs chronicles the current dating scene in and around Los Angeles. If you have comments or a true story to tell, us at LAAffairs latimes.
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L.A. Affairs: I’m a black woman. He’s a white guy with a pickup truck. Here’s what happened