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I have been recording podcasts for some time, but this last one might be of particular interest to you.

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I made it a free podcast instead. Because, basically my goal is to facilitate as many couples understanding and enjoying pegging as possible. Especially the women! Because you are allowing them to know a deeper part of you, no matter how they decide to respond. I encourage communication over and over, because good communication about sex is indeed the sexiest thing out there! For those who are interested — could you give it a listen and let me know what you think? Did I miss anything important? Podcast is 50 minutes in length and you can stream it directly from my other website.

Click the link under the photo above. This man did it! And called me up to tell me the story. Give a listen — it might just change your mind a little about going to a professional…. If you are a man who wants to approach your woman about pegging this article is for you.

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If you are a woman who wants to approach your man about pegging. Podcast — For the Ladies. Update: I recorded the above podcast specifically for the circumstances where you have just introduced your partner to the concept of pegging. The podcast is in my voice, talking to her. I offer accurate information, dispel myths and misconceptions, and emphasize the health of the relationship above all. For you gentlemen who have an established relationship and you want more than anything to convince your partner to peg you…what is the best way to do this?

I will do my very best to try and help you here… but please realize there are many contributing factors. But let us remain hopeful…. First, communication is the key. You need to be able to ask for what you want.

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Take a good long look at your relationship first. Make sure you take into consideration her state of mind and whether she is stressed out with time demands, work, children, etc. Do your best to alleviate her stress and make sure you contribute equally to the relationship. If you are indeed GGG and think you have a partner who is so open to new things while remaining unaffected by misconceptions and stereotypes that you can just tell her straight away that you would like to try pegging, by all means go for it.

Some men actually have success this way! But be forewarned that you may also put her off the idea for good. Big risk. Keep reading. Patience is the key here. Many women when asked for strap-on play right off the bat have refused because they have no idea what pleasure the prostate can bring. Also, they have nothing to counter the usual misconceptions connected with pegging.

So remember, have patience and ask for fingers first. Bide your time. If your lady has already shown a willingness to engage in anal play, you have a foot in the door. If she is willing to let you put a finger or toy or your cock in her ass, there is a much better chance she will consent to exploring yours. Tell her you can see she is enjoying it and you want to see what it feels like.

Or…you read an article about prostate orgasms and want to experiment. This is a more difficult category, guys. Maybe you have a woman who has always refused anything anal; you touch her anus and she flinches or pulls away. There can be a lot of reasons for this. Perhaps she was told as her anus is dirty Want to try strap on pegging brave woman needed should never be touched. Perhaps she thinks that only sluts have anal sex. Perhaps she is a bit of a germaphobe. Sometimes that comes with age. Any or all of these could be true.

So even if your partner is not into anal at all — she could still be an enthusiastic pegger. Receiving anal herself is not a requirement. So if your partner gladly slips a finger up your ass during a blow job but steadfastly refuses to let anything near her ass, this is still good news. Just skip down to Offer Another Trade.

Two ways to do this…only you know your partner well enough to know which one might work best. Promise her that you will only use your lips, tongue if you are into rimming and one finger or a small toy; your cock is not going to come anywhere near her ass.

Because that is the fear of many women — the ignorant and savage thrust of a cock up an ass as if it were a pussy has put many women off anal sex…. So you need to go at this ultra-slow. Afterward, wax poetic about how totally hot that was to play with her ass and you absolutely loved it. The idea here is to get her used to ass play in general before asking her to peg you…and to wake her ass up to the pleasure potential there. Important: while you are playing with her ass keep the communication lines open and keep asking her if she likes what you are doing as you try different things.

Reassure her, if it seems necessary, that you will love and respect her no matter what you two do in bed, and you will attend to cleanliness issues in whatever way helps her to feel comfortable. If you are not into rimming or the thought of it grosses her out, fingers and small toys are fine…even a small toy that vibrates! If she agrees, proceed as described above. If she becomes receptive to anal play, consider anal be and experiment with pulling the be out at the moment of orgasm trick.

Find out what she likes best — ask questions! If she is reticent — offer a trade. Tell her that if she will let you play with her ass one night, you will do whatever she wants the next night. And be ready to fulfill any reasonable request of hers. This is all about mutual pleasure. If you can get her to enjoy anal play…it is much easier to introduce the concept of her exploring your ass.

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Once you have played with her ass several times very successfully not necessarily even fucked it you can try talking with her about how you would really like to know how ass play feels. If she goes for it — excellent! If she is still reticent…. Just be ready to put on the lace panties or paint her nails or whatever it is she wants.

As long as it is not a hard limit — it would behoove you to indulge her…just as you are asking her to indulge you. Do not go straight to asking her to fuck you in the ass with a dildo! Too much, too fast. Pick out a plug together and ask her to put it in you to wear while you are fucking her or when she is giving you a blow job or hand job.

Invite her to wear it while you are fucking her, too! Exclaim how amazing your orgasms are with the plug in and suggest you try other toys. Maybe at that point talk with her about strap-ons. Tell her, while looking into her eyes with the best smoking-hot look you can muster, that just the thought of her…wearing a strap-on and doing you…about sends you over the edge. Just the thought. Do not start a conversation like this when you are in the middle of having sex. Talk with your partner about this out of the bedroom.

Otherwise she will feel pressured and believe me — you stand a really good chance of killing the mood…and killing your chances. Choose a time when she is relaxed, receptive and maybe even had a glass or two of wine. An incredibly important point here is that you need to be a partner who is responsive to her needs if you are asking her to be responsive to yours. Read that again and think about it…and if you are not that kind of partner, make those changes before you ask for pegging. Your woman needs to feel that you take very good care of her needs and desires in the bedroom.

If she feels that way, she will be much more likely to give you what you are asking for. A friend of mine offered another very important point to keep in mind when you ask for what you want. Her words say it best. Here is a toned-down version:. Some women, however, have a real reaction to it.

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If your lady has played with your ass and is okay with that, leave the harness aside and let her use the dildo with her hand. Once she tries it she may warm up to the idea of strapping it on. She may not, but one can hope.

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You will do everything you can to be as clean as possible. This means not eating a lot of crap or drinking alcohol a few days before, too, because that will make your feces stink more than usual. Whatever you do, do NOT show her your favorite porn clip of pegging! If you play that way — more power to you, but I suspect if you are here reading this article you have a partner that might be a little more vanilla. The very last thing you want is for her to see that porn showing a guy dressed up as a woman and being beaten while she taunts him and fucks him.

Again — this is not a judgment about what turns you or your partner on. I am just saying be aware of what you are exposing her to and how she might react to it. Spend some time looking for a few hot amateur porn clips that are loving and gentle and the man is moaning in ecstasy. They are out there! If she is completely unwilling to give or receive anal pleasure and you are not willing to live without it, go ahead and carefully lay your cards on the table that you are very interested in ass play yourself, even if she does not want her ass explored.

Consider asking her if you can just put in a butt plug while you fuck her, just to see what it feels like. This works for women who are sincerely interested in giving their men pleasure. Maybe call Dan Savage sex advice columnist to explore your options.

Men who would love to experience pegging have fears of expressing their desires, understandably. There are some men who never confess their fantasies much less try to turn them into reality because they are so afraid of or even certain of rejection. Only you can make that judgment call. And I so wish I had a magic wand for you. On one hand I would love to see you guys let go of your fears and express your desires to your partner.

I have heard amazing stories of men who did just that and their women, after initial surprise, agreed to try it and ended up loving the feeling of fucking their husbands.

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I have heard stories of how it totally renewed the sexual spark in a relationship of many years. Yet I have also heard sad stories of women who called their husband gay and never fucked them again. Honestly, I just want to slap those women for being so sexually fucked up and for being so cruel to their husbands. So again…we come back to the point that your relationship needs to be solid, intimate, sexual, trusting, open and communicative. If divulging a yearning for pegging might destroy your relationship, you need to decide whether you can go the rest of your life not having your sexual needs met, whether you need to leave the relationship and find someone more sexually compatible or whether you can come to an agreement that you can get your needs met elsewhere.

Tough questions. For those of you who have success with your ladies, do me a HUGE favor and ask her what it was exactly that convinced her to try it? Then write me an and tell me! I want to know what persuades an initially reluctant woman to strap one on and learn to love fucking her man. And then I will do my very best to bring many more women around to the idea….

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